The family court NZ process is a structured legal pathway designed to resolve disputes regarding the care of children, relationship property, and domestic safety. It typically begins with mandatory Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) mediation. If unresolved, an application is filed, leading to a series of judicial conferences to narrow issues. The process culminates in a Defended Hearing only if parties cannot agree, with all decisions strictly prioritizing the welfare and best interests of the child under the Care of Children Act 2004.
Understanding the Family Court NZ Framework
Navigating the Family Court in New Zealand can be an overwhelming experience, often occurring during times of high emotional stress. Whether you are dealing with parenting arrangements, relationship property division, or protection orders, understanding the procedural landscape is vital for managing expectations and achieving the best possible outcome.
The Family Court operates differently from criminal or civil courts. It is less formal, closed to the public to protect privacy, and operates under an inquisitorial model rather than a purely adversarial one. This means the Judge takes an active role in seeking the truth and determining what is best for the vulnerable parties involved, particularly children.
The guiding principle of the New Zealand Family Court, enshrined in the Care of Children Act 2004, is that the welfare and best interests of the child are the first and paramount consideration. This principle dictates every step of the process, from how evidence is heard to how timelines are managed. It is not about parental rights, but rather parental responsibilities and the rights of the child to be safe and loved.

Pre-Court Requirements: Mediation and Courses
Before you can step foot inside a courtroom for a parenting order, New Zealand law generally requires you to attempt to resolve the dispute outside of court. This is to prevent the court system from becoming clogged with matters that could be settled amicably and to reduce conflict between parents.
Parenting Through Separation
Most applicants are required to complete the “Parenting Through Separation” (PTS) course. This is a free, four-hour information programme funded by the Ministry of Justice. It helps parents understand how separation affects children and provides tools to communicate effectively. You will receive a certificate upon completion, which is valid for two years and is usually a mandatory attachment to your court application.
Family Dispute Resolution (FDR)
Unless there are safety concerns, you must participate in Family Dispute Resolution (FDR). This is a formal mediation process where an independent, accredited mediator helps parents discuss their issues and try to reach an agreement on a Parenting Plan.
If FDR is successful, the agreement can be turned into a Consent Order, which is legally binding. If FDR is unsuccessful, or if one party refuses to attend, the mediator will issue an “Outcome of Family Dispute Resolution” form. You must file this form with the court to prove you attempted mediation before a judge will hear your case.
Exceptions to Mandatory Mediation: You do not have to attend FDR or PTS if there is an urgent risk to safety, such as domestic violence, or if the matter is “Without Notice” (urgent). In these cases, you can bypass the pre-court steps to seek immediate protection.
Filing an Application: Urgent vs. On Notice
Once pre-court requirements are met (or exempted), the formal legal process begins with filing an application. There are two distinct tracks your application can take, which significantly alters the speed and nature of the proceedings.
On Notice (Standard Track)
Most applications are filed “On Notice.” This means the application is filed with the court, and a copy is served on the other party (the respondent). The respondent is given a specific timeframe (usually 21 days) to file a defence or a response. Once the response is filed, the court schedules the first case management conference. This track is used when there is no immediate danger to the child or applicant.
Without Notice (Urgent Track)
If there is a genuine belief that a child or person is in immediate danger, or that the other party might flee the jurisdiction with the child, an application can be filed “Without Notice.” This is often referred to as an ex parte application.
In this scenario, a Judge reviews the file immediately—often on the same day—without the other party being present or even knowing about it. The Judge may make an Interim Order (temporary order) to ensure safety. If an Interim Order is made, the other party is then served and given a chance to respond. These orders are powerful and are reserved for serious situations involving family violence or severe welfare concerns.
The Step-by-Step Court Process
If your case proceeds to court, it will generally follow a structured path designed to resolve issues as early as possible. Very few cases actually make it to a full trial (Defended Hearing).
1. Triage and Intakes
Upon filing, a court registrar or Judge reviews the file to determine the urgency and the track the case should take. This is the administrative beginning of the judicial process.
2. Issues Conference
This is usually the first time the parties appear before a Judge. It is often conducted via telephone or video link, though it can be in person. The purpose is not to hear evidence but to identify clearly what the parties agree on and what is in dispute. The Judge will set a timetable for filing further affidavits (sworn statements) and may appoint a Lawyer for Child at this stage.
3. Settlement Conference
A Settlement Conference is a judge-led mediation. The Judge moves from a decision-making role to a facilitation role. They will indicate what they might decide if the case went to a hearing, based on the evidence so far. This “judicial indication” is a reality check for parents and often leads to a settlement.
4. Defended Hearing
If no agreement is reached, the matter proceeds to a Defended Hearing. This is a formal trial where witnesses are called, cross-examined, and evidence is scrutinized. At the conclusion, the Judge will issue a reserved judgment—a written decision that becomes a Court Order. This is the final stage and can be costly and stressful.

The Role of Lawyer for Child
One of the most unique and critical aspects of the New Zealand family court system is the appointment of the Lawyer for Child. Under the Care of Children Act, if a case involves a dispute about the care of a child, the Court may appoint a specialized lawyer to represent the child’s interests.
It is crucial to understand that the Lawyer for Child does not act on the instructions of the parents. Furthermore, while they must ascertain and inform the court of the child’s views (depending on the child’s age and maturity), they advocate for the child’s welfare and best interests, which may sometimes differ from what the child says they want.
The Lawyer for Child will:
- Meet with the child (usually at school or home).
- Interview the parents and other significant adults (teachers, new partners).
- File a memorandum providing their observations and recommendations to the Judge.
- Call evidence and cross-examine witnesses during a hearing.
Their voice carries significant weight in the courtroom, as they are viewed as the neutral advocate for the most vulnerable person in the proceedings.
Specialist Reports and Cultural Considerations
The Judge often requires expert opinion to make a safe decision. The most common report is a Section 133 Specialist Report (referencing the Care of Children Act). This is a psychological or psychiatric assessment of the child and the parents.
A registered psychologist will interview all parties, observe interactions between parents and children, and conduct personality or safety assessments. The resulting report provides the Judge with a clinical view on attachment, risk, and the psychological impact of various care arrangements. These reports are highly influential in the final decision.
Additionally, under Section 136, the court may call for a Cultural Report to ensure that a child’s cultural background (Māori, Pasifika, or other ethnicities) is recognized and maintained in any parenting arrangement. This aligns with the legislative requirement to recognize the child’s identity and cultural heritage.
Costs, Legal Aid, and Financial Contributions
The cost of Family Court proceedings can vary wildly depending on the complexity of the case and whether you hire a private lawyer.
Court Fees
Interestingly, for many applications under the Care of Children Act (such as Parenting Orders), there are no filing fees in New Zealand. However, applications for Dissolution of Marriage (divorce) do incur a filing fee (currently around $211.50 NZD).
Legal Representation Costs
Private lawyers generally charge by the hour. A protracted dispute involving a Defended Hearing can cost tens of thousands of dollars. It is essential to discuss fee structures with your lawyer upfront.
Legal Aid
If you cannot afford a lawyer, you may be eligible for Family Legal Aid. This is government funding to pay for your legal help. It is not always free; depending on your income and assets, you may have to repay some or all of it over time. You can check your eligibility through the Ministry of Justice website.
Cost Contribution Orders
If a Lawyer for Child or a Specialist Report writer is appointed, the costs are initially covered by the state. However, the Court will usually assess the parents for a “Cost Contribution Order.” Unless you are on Legal Aid or can prove financial hardship, you will generally be required to pay back 1/3 of the Lawyer for Child’s fees each (the Crown absorbs the final third). This bill is sent at the conclusion of the case.

Conclusion and Next Steps
The family court NZ process is designed to be robust and child-focused, but it is undeniably complex. From the initial requirements of the “Parenting Through Separation” course to the intensity of a Defended Hearing, every step is governed by strict procedural rules and the overarching principle of the child’s welfare.
If you are facing a family law dispute, preparation is your best defense. Gather your documentation, consider the benefits of mediation, and seek professional advice early. While the court provides a mechanism for resolution, the most durable and positive outcomes for children often come from agreements reached by parents who are supported to communicate effectively.
For more detailed forms and guides, you can visit the official New Zealand Ministry of Justice Family Court section.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does the Family Court process take in NZ?
The timeline varies significantly. Urgent (without notice) applications can be heard within 24 hours. However, standard applications typically take 6 to 12 months to reach a final resolution if they proceed to a hearing. Delays can occur due to court backlogs, the need for specialist reports, or adjournments requested by parties.
Do I need a lawyer for Family Court in NZ?
You are not legally required to have a lawyer, and you can represent yourself (self-represented litigant). However, family law is complex. It is highly recommended to engage a lawyer, especially if the other party has one or if the case involves complicated issues like relocation, safety risks, or significant property division.
What happens if I breach a Family Court Order?
Breaching a Parenting Order or Protection Order is a serious matter. For a Parenting Order, the other party can apply for enforcement, which may lead to admonishment, fines, or a variation of the order. Breaching a Protection Order is a criminal offense in New Zealand, punishable by up to three years in imprisonment.
Who pays for the Lawyer for Child?
The State initially pays the Lawyer for Child. However, at the end of the case, the Court usually orders the parties to refund these costs. typically, each parent is asked to pay one-third of the total cost, with the government absorbing the remaining third. Exemptions apply for those on Legal Aid or facing financial hardship.
Can children speak to the Judge directly?
It is rare for a child to speak directly to the Judge in open court. Instead, the child’s views are conveyed through the Lawyer for Child. In some specific circumstances, a Judge may agree to meet with the child in chambers (a private office) to hear their views directly, but this is not standard procedure.
What is a Section 133 Report?
A Section 133 Report is a psychological or medical report ordered by the Court under the Care of Children Act 2004. It is conducted by an independent psychologist or psychiatrist to assess the psychological health of the parents and children and to provide recommendations on care arrangements that best support the child’s welfare.




