Infidelity, Betrayal Trauma & NZ Law

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Infidelity, Betrayal Trauma & NZ Law

Digital Evidence of Infidelity

Table of Contents The Legal Landscape of Audio Recording in New Zealand Accessing a Partner’s Phone and Digital Accounts The Harmful Digital Communications Act (HDCA) GPS Tracking, Spyware, and Surveillance Devices Admissibility of Digital Evidence in Family Court The ‘No-Fault’ Divorce Reality in New Zealand Risks of High-Conflict Divorce and Psychological Impact Recording spouse NZ […]

New Zealand Family Court documents regarding Care of Children Act
Infidelity, Betrayal Trauma & NZ Law

Impact of Affairs on Custody

Table of Contents The Legal Framework: Welfare and Best Interests Moral Judgment vs. Parenting Ability When Does an Affair Impact Parenting Arrangements? The Risk of a New Partner: Safety First High-Conflict Dynamics and Psychological Impact Focusing on Stability for the Children Practical Steps for Parents in NZ People Also Ask (FAQs) Does adultery affect child

New Zealand Crimes Act and Gavel
Infidelity, Betrayal Trauma & NZ Law

STDs and Legal Liability in NZ

Discovering that a partner has transmitted a Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD) is a profound betrayal that triggers a cascade of medical, emotional, and legal questions. In the context of high-conflict relationships or divorces, this discovery often serves as concrete evidence of infidelity or reckless disregard for a partner’s wellbeing. While the emotional wound is immediate,

A partner looking distressed while being gaslit about phone evidence
Infidelity, Betrayal Trauma & NZ Law

Gaslighting and Affair Discovery

Table of Contents Understanding Gaslighting in the Context of Infidelity 10 Critical Gaslighting Signs in a Relationship Common Gaslighting Phrases Used by Cheaters Trusting Your Intuition vs. Their Denial The Impact on Mental Health and Credibility Documenting Reality to Counter Gaslighting Moving Forward: Breaking the Cycle Frequently Asked Questions Gaslighting signs in a relationship manifest

Brain diagram showing amygdala hijacking prefrontal cortex during trauma
Infidelity, Betrayal Trauma & NZ Law

Betrayal Trauma and Decision Making

Table of Contents Understanding Betrayal Trauma Symptoms and Cognitive Function The Brain on Trauma: Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn The Danger of Hasty Settlements: Guilt, Shock, and Appeasement Therapeutic Support During Legal Proceedings Regaining Cognitive Clarity for High-Stakes Decisions Frequently Asked Questions Betrayal trauma symptoms include severe anxiety, intrusive thoughts, emotional dysregulation, and cognitive dissonance

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Infidelity, Betrayal Trauma & NZ Law

Does Adultery Affect Property Settlement?

Table of Contents The Legal Reality: No-Fault Divorce in New Zealand The Exception: Dissipation of Assets on an Affair Proving Financial Misconduct: The Forensic Approach Section 18A: The “Repugnant to Justice” Threshold Economic Disparity vs. Moral Misconduct Managing Expectations in High-Conflict Separations In New Zealand, a cheating spouse does not automatically receive a smaller share

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